I've had a man now for going on 4 months. When I first got with my man it was an ideal situation...my bestfriend had recently gotten into a relationship too! This was perfect because she could spend time with her man and I could spend time with mine. Neither of us would be too clingy and we could both enjoy friend time as well as quality time with our bf's. However, our relationships were very different. You see I moved in with my man shortly after we met and we are taking things very seriously...my friend on the other hand was with her man but things were going down hill. All of a sudden she started throwing jabs at my relationship...saying that it wasn't as serious as her relationship and that (check this one out) I WAS ONLY IN A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE SHE WAS IN ONE. Well, irony bit her in the ass....and her relationship didn't make it pass the 2 month mark. Now she's full of venom and is becoming so clingy it's not funny. She curses me out...she gets mad when I spend time with my man...and she's very narcisstic and irrational lately. Not to mention, every chance she got she was telling me how I needed to leave my man. "Oh...let me get this straight...he forgot to put the toilet seat down? Leave his ass! He ain't no good." I started to wonder if she really had my best interest at heart. Today we got into a huge argument and it ended with me telling her that I needed a break from our friendship. Now I'm sitting here trying to figure out if I was wrong for wanting to spend time with my man...
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